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A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ….
enough money within her control to move out and rent a place of her own even if she never wants to or needs to…
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ….
something perfect to wear if the employer or date of her dreams wants to see her in an hour…
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE …
a youth she’s content to leave behind….
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ….
a past juicy enough that she’s looking forward to retelling it in her old age….
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE …..
a set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra…
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ….
one friend who always makes her laugh… and one who lets her cry…
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ….
a good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her family…
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ….
eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems, and a recipe for a meal that will make her guests feel honored…
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ….
a feeling of control over her destiny…
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
how to fall in love without losing herself..
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
HOW TO QUIT A JOB,
BREAK UP WITH A LOVER,
AND CONFRONT A FRIEND WITHOUT RUINING THE FRIENDSHIP…
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
when to try harder… and WHEN TO WALK AWAY…
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
that she can’t change the length of her calves,
the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents..
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
that her childhood may not have been perfect…but it’s over…
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
what she would and wouldn’t do for love or more…
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
how to live alone… even if she doesn’t like it…
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
whom she can trust,
whom she can’t,
and why she shouldn’t
take it personally…
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
where to go… be it to her best friend’s kitchen table… or a charming inn in the woods… when her soul needs soothing…
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
what she can and can’t accomplish in a day… a month…and a year…
Nobody said it was easy
It’s such a shame for us to part
Nobody said it was easy
No one ever said it would be this hard
Oh, take me back to the start
nothing ever gets easier </3 miss you anthony.
AJF<3
almost 3 weeks ago my big brother passed away, he was only just 26 years old. He was the one person that I wanted to grow old with, have our kids be best of cousins, like how close i am with my cousins. He was the one that I went to for everything and anything. Ant is my big brother, my hero, my best friend, and he will continue to be these things to me and much more until the day I die. I don’t like talking about him as if he is a part of my past, because not only was he in my past, but he’s in my present, and my future as well because I know that each day that goes by he is with me and there for me right by my side. The type of relationship that Anthony and I had is one that can’t even be explained. Saying that we were like two peas in a pod, or that we were exactly alike is not even close, because we were much more than that. Not only do we look alike, but we speak alike, talk with the same accent, have the same tone, use the same words. We do the same things, love the same things, act alike, everything was like a mirror image, except that he is a male, and I am a female. Losing my 100% blood brother, my only best friend, my hero, is honestly the worst thing that has ever happened to me. It’s heartbreaking because I always said my fist son will be named after ant, and he will be his god father, he’s going to take him everything, but him everything and make him look soo fresh! hah and i know that if he was here that he would do exactly that. Thru breakup’s, thru school drama, thru friend drama, and thru everything else that happens in a girls life while growing into a woman (which is a huge, widespead amount of things) Anthony was there for me through it all, in a second he would be there to beat someone up, stand up for me, say harsh things, or just set someone straight. He was there to take the blame if i were to get into trouble, he was there to help me into or out of ant situation. Together we had huge plans for the future, and now I will have to carry the plans that we had to do things together, by myself, but i know that you will always be beside me, proud of me and helping me make it through all of this. Anthony I fucking love you and I don’t know why this had to happen, one day all the answers will be answered. one day when i see you again in heaven all of my unanswered questions will be answered, I miss you so much it’s unbelieveable, i love you my brother, ajf<3
OMG haven’t been on here in FOREVER! I missseddd you TUMBLR<3
